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Happy ever after

Hello ladies

Firstly I hope everyone's ok and battling through like warriors, ive used this site for so many different reasons and found so much comfort and help from everyone.

So today I thought I'd share a little post treatment happy ever after story

So prior to being diagnosed with CC back in June my single self was on the dating sites looking for love and was becoming quite a serial dater 😂. Anyway one guy had kept my interest and we were upto 3rd date status when I got the life changing news.....from that point I sent a quick message with no real explanation and ended any further contact so I could concentrate on just me. Confused he still sent the odd message to check in on me still completely unaware what I was going through.

Well fast forward to a couple of weeks ago! 8 weeks post RH and window shopping back on PoF to past the time and who pops up...Mr 3rd date!! Anyway feeling quite good about myself and having this new found me confidence that im gonna live my life and grab every opportunity I can, I decide to reply and explain exactly what I'd been through.......1 whole hour passed and there was nothing no reply, great I thought heres the first small minded man of many im probably going to come across!!

Anyhow fast forward again another half hour and my phone pings!! Its a reply🤔 did I really want to read it was I prepared for the reaction?

Well to my absolute shock...not only was he the most open minded bloke I'd spoken to with great comedy values about my situation....he had also gone through the same turmoil last year!!! Yes he's a fellow cancer club member.

So obviously from there I've chilled out and decided to give it all a whirl, the stories and our warped sense of humours have been so refreshing and I honestly can't believe that after all this im laughing and smiling again.

Oh and fellow radical hysterectomy ladies or those awaiting to have the surgery done, everything works just fine haha😂🤫


27.05.2020 attended nurse apt due to unable to feel coil strings and slightly heavier than normal discharge

03.06.2020 colposcopy apt

10.06.2020 apt made for results (welcome to cc club)

15.06.2020 MRI scan

18.06.2020 MDT stage 1b2

25.06.2020 apt to meet surgeon and discuss treatment

15.07.2020 radical hysterectomy 

06.08.2020 no further treatment needed, follow up in 3 months



Lisa, l love your Happy ever after story. I was divorced for many years before my cancer diagnosis and really haven't had any interest since. If I ever changed my mind it's nice to know I might find a kindred spirit to share my days with. Live, laugh, love and enjoy every minute. 
x Maria

Diagnosed CC 01st August 2019 Stage 1b2 with 1 local lymph node involved. Something else showed up on pet scan. Treatment delayed for surgery, done on September 9th. Found to be a simple ovarian cyst, 1 ovary and tube removed. Treatment plan 5 chemo, 25 radio and 4 brachy. Treatment start date 02nd October 2019. Treatment end date 8th November.

February 2020 3 month scans NED

August 2020 9 Month scans NED




Lisa this is great news, thank you for sharing with the forum - it gives this single lady hope that I might one day find a kindred spirit and enjoy my happy ever after.  Enjoy it xx

Diagnosed 12th Feb 2020 with adenocarcinoma, suspected 1b

25th March confirmed stage 1b1 following CT and MRI

31st March radical hsterectomy, pelvic lymph nodes removed, ovarian transposition

8th April advised histology clear, no further treatment required

Follow up 28th Oct

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