I have been with my wife for 9 years and she was diagnosed a year and a half ago , she is currently in remission and is back to work and school. We do not have children
Currently she wants a trial separation or divorce .
She says that she has changed , that her needs are different and she is a different person. She says she needs to be alone to figure this out. She doesn' know what her new needs are just that she isn' getting what she needs. This makes it very difficult because I don' know how to change the way I support her if she doesn' even know what she needs.
Has anyone been in this situation during the treatment process? Has anyone else tried a seperation? Am I being selfish trying to fight for our marriage? Should I let her walk away?
I don' know what to think or feel .....i need insight, advice ,anything
Thank you for your time