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Trying to save my relationship

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Trying to save my relationship

I had been seeing my partner for about 5 months prior to her diagnosis with cervical cancer. In the lead up  to treatment commencing she tried to set me free on three occasions but I said that I wanted to stay with her and support her.

About 4 weeks in to treatment she sent me an email saying that she just didn’t have the mental head space for me and could only focus on her and her son. So she needed to let me go for now. I told her I was shattered and heartbroken that I wanted to be with her and support her. She responded saying she didn’t want to hurt me but she believed it was best for us.

On the advice of a Psychologist I responded saying that I understood her position so I was happy to go down this path for now. The psychologist advised me to become a friend until after the treatment was over and see what happens then. The psychologist thought she had strong feelings for me which made it to hard for her to deal with as well as all the things that go with cancer.

i have run in to her once since at a cafe we used to frequent and did the friend thing. I have been texting as a friend but yesterday when I sent her a Christmas message I got no response.

i am so sad without her and want so much to support her.  I have never loved anybody like I do her. I just don’t know what to do? Help.



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